Another letter from our daughter at Army Basic Training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina.
Letter Six Dated July 29, 2012 ~ Summarized
(Notes in parentheses are mine.)
Hey, Hey Madre y Padre!
I realized all of my letters have had a lot of Army jargon so I’m going to take some time to let you know what it is like here.
I am a member of the 1st Platoon in Delta Company. There are four Platoons in Delta, which is part of a Regiment with six other companies. We do all of our classroom and group training with our platoon. Our big training (foot marches, field training exercises, etc.) is with the whole company. Each Platoon has three Drill Sergeants and around 50 Privates in four squads.
(She drew an org chart for us too.)
I’m pretty sure I would be friends with my Senior Drill Sergeant if we were in a different setting. He is the highest-ranking Drill Sergeant in the company, and is Infantry, Ranger, and Sniper qualified. He is one scary dude when he is mad at us, but he pushes us harder than any other Drill Sergeant pushes their Platoon. I’d much rather have that than someone who didn’t care or babied us.
(Can I baby you when you get home?)
Last Friday, we did the obstacle course. It was awesome and a butt kicker of a work out. I was on the 1st Platoon’s team and competed against the other Platoons. Well, there was one obstacle where we went over three walls and under three beams. It rained the night before so there was a huge puddle on the far side of each wall. I went over two of the walls and on the third twisted my ankle, but still finished like a badass and road-marched back. The next day, we had a physical fitness test, so I got up a 4 am, iced my ankle, and took the test. My sit-ups and push-ups were good, but my run wasn’t so hot. I was in a good amount of pain, plus exhausted and sore from the day before. All of us who competed in the obstacle course struggled on the test.
I didn’t go to sickbay for a few reasons:
- You gotta go in the morning, and Saturday after the physical fitness test it was too late.
- It is closed on Sundays so you would have to go to the hospital instead . . . uh . . . NO.
- The next week we had our first official road-march, day and night land navigation, the gas chamber, and our field training exercise. These are required events and a pain to make up.
- I didn’t want to be a wimp. So many people are hobbling around here, mostly faking it, in order to get out of training. Plus, the Drill Sergeants have to deal with those losers all the time, so complaining didn’t seem like an option.
So I drove on. It hurt like a bitch but I still beat most people, if not everyone, at the stuff we had to do. But, on Friday morning we had a group run and part of the warm-ups were “high-knees” and I felt the pain all through the back of my heel. I fell out of the pack on our run.
I went to sick call on Saturday and they sent me to the Troop Medical Clinic. The doctor told me I injured my Achilles Heel and gave me some pain meds. Most injuries, you get put on “profile.” That means the doctor specifies what you can and cannot do. I made sure to tell the doc, “NO PROFILE.” He was pretty cool about it but I need a brace because if it rips through all the way, I’ll need surgery. My brace is a huge metal thing I can hardly fit in my boot. I’m part robot now!
Good news though. I was worried about my Drill Sergeant thinking I was weak. But since the night before was peer reviews, he already knew I am a strong soldier. When I got back from the Clinic, one of the other Drill Sergeants said to him, “Hey, your Private Coyle tore her Achilles. How f**ked up is that?” (This was overheard by me . . . they were in the back room.)
My Drill Sergeant responded, “No. F**k. That right there is my best Private!”
Then he yelled, “Coyle, what the f**k did you do? You going home?”
I said, “No Drill Sergeant! And no profile Drill Sergeant!”
“F**k yeah, Private!”
(During a high school soccer game, Amanda collided with an opponent and sat out of the game for a few minutes. She begged the coach to put her back in and Amanda played out the game. Her ankle was swollen that night and the next day, so I took her in for X-rays. You guessed it, BROKEN. Talk about high pain-tolerance.)
The Sergeant and I talked about some of the training, like “high knees,” that really screws me up. He said since I am not a “f**ked up Private,” he’ll let me pick and choose what I should not do to abuse my heel. And two days ago, I thought he didn’t know me! Now he does and looks out for me. He also has been harder on me and points out my little mistakes so everyone can hear. I know it’s only been two days since, but trust me, there’s a lot of stuff he finds to yell about. I hope is it because he is getting ready to put me in an official leadership role.
Love ya and miss ya!
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on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
wow – amazing world –thanks so much for sharing this – don’t stop
robincoyle said:
I have a couple more of her letters to share so stay tuned!
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
I most certainly will – this is fascinating, eye-opening and amazing stuff
robincoyle said:
So glad you think so. When I posted the first letter, I didn’t know what to expect, but the response has been amazing! The insider’s view, especially from a woman’s perspective, is cool!
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
way cool
mskatykins said:
I’m telling you, Robin – I think good writing must run in the family!!! 🙂
I meant to say on the last post, that care package business is a cracking idea! 🙂
robincoyle said:
What a kind thing for you to say Katy! She writes a darn good letter, doesn’t she?
Putting together the care-packages is fun. I wander the aisles and toss random things in the cart, including things I think will make her laugh. I wish I could include homemade cookies tho!
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ghostofawriter said:
Good for her. Too many females play the ‘poor me’ role in the military and screw it up for those of us with honest intentions. Hope she keeps going strong.
BTW: I forwarded your blog to a female colonel I know and even though she won’t post on here she says.
“Keep up the good work, we need more of us out there”
robincoyle said:
How cool that you forwarded Amanda’s letter to your friend. Tell her thank you for her comment.
Amanda is a strong gal and loves the physical and mental challenge of the Army. She could NEVER do a desk job.
originalapplejunkie said:
She’s crazy amazing!
Definitely high pain tolerance..God is looking out for her..I believe that!! 🙂
robincoyle said:
I believe an Army of angels are looking out for her, and her fellow soldiers.
Tilly Bud - The Laughing Housewife said:
What an amazing young woman she is. You must be so proud.
Thanks for sharing the letters.
robincoyle said:
We are indeed proud, Tilly. And scared!
Tilly Bud - The Laughing Housewife said:
I bet you are. I hope you don’t mind that I have had her in my prayers since you first told us she had joined the army.
robincoyle said:
Mind that she is in your prayers? Never! I appreciate that she is. You are so sweet.
Tilly Bud - The Laughing Housewife said:
🙂
Lisaman said:
What an amazing pat on the back by her drill sergeant…fantastic!!
robincoyle said:
I’d love to meet the guy . . . but he would probably intimidate me!
4amWriter said:
Ooh, achilles. That makes me tense up in pain! She’s pretty savvy, your girl, knowing how the higher-ups are going to react to certain things. Glad it worked out for her.
robincoyle said:
And can you imagine doing a 5-mile road-march in full gear and backpack on a torn Achilles?
Robin Jean Marie said:
I think that if I were Amanda’s mom reading that letter, I would alternate between beaming with pride and wringing my hands with worry. May the force be with you, Robin, while you read these letters and think about your daughter. I do hope that she heals and continues onward with that amazing spirit. I’m glad her sergeant is duly impressed with her, and I do hope he watches out for her and her injury.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Robin and I hope she heals soon. Too. Maybe the Sergeant will send her to a day spa for some pampering. Ha! Not likely.
When I read her letters, I do a lot of sighing, fretting, and beaming. it is an odd combination of emotions.
Elliot said:
Got to like that, even if the achilles injury is not great.
robincoyle said:
Let’s hope her injury doesn’t get worse!
Elliot said:
Yes she needs to be careful not to overdo it and make it worse.
Lynne Ayers said:
uhhhhh …….. Wow! Some girl you got there Robin.
robincoyle said:
She is something!
Polly said:
Now that’s what I call a soldier ~ and a brave one ~ no wonder she’s gained recognition from the drill sergeant ~ great blog Robin
robincoyle said:
Thanks Polly! Glad you are enjoying Amanda’s letters and this humble blog.
allthingsboys said:
O.K., my very first response is, what, you can’t be sick or injured in the afternoon? Sorry private, you can only go in the morning, so if you are going to die, go do it somewhere I don’t have to see. We’ll take you’re carcass to the medics in the morning when you are allowed to go. LOL! My second is, no kidding she’s a badass! I’m having a hard time reconciling that sweet picture with her words..:-) Robin, I’ll meet you at Tokyo Rose. Maybe Klinger will be there…
robincoyle said:
I hope Klinger is wearing his teal chiffon dress and the turban with the jeweled brooch!
The threat of being sent home because of an injury means hiding something that could potentially get worse from lack of medical attention, right?
That sweet face belies the tough soldier inside!
L.S. Engler said:
I’m really enjoying these letters, Robin. So cool of you to share them. Your girl is one tough cookie! My cousin recently was deployed to Afghanistan, so these letter really make me think of her and everything she’d been going through and how incredible an experience this all must be. Fantastic. I really admire your daughter!
robincoyle said:
I’m glad you are enjoying the letters. It is hard to know what to expect . . .you know, I find them interesting but I’m her mom!
Godspeed and safety to your cousin. Is she able to write home? I’m proud of our troops and their selfless service in defense of our country and freedom. Thank goodness there are people like that.
maddiecochere said:
“That right there is my best Private!” … That is huge! What a testimony to her perseverance and strength. I’m so glad you share her letters with us, Robin. She is an inspiration. Start working on the screenplay now.
robincoyle said:
Ha! I think the screenplay has already been done . . . G.I. Jane. Which, not surprising, is one of Amanda’s favorite movies!
I’m so happy you are enjoying the letters. They are fun to share and the support of her efforts is heartwarming. As I’ve said before, I can’t wait for her to read all the comments.
diannegray said:
How I admire her! She’s one tough lady 🙂
robincoyle said:
Tough, and maybe a little crazy for signing up for what she is doing!
I admire her too.
Vanessa Chapman said:
It just doesn’t sound real – reading her letters I feel like it’s something from a movie, ya know? Amazing.
robincoyle said:
Maybe she isn’t really at Fort Jackson. I bet she is lying on a beach in Hawaii, watching the movie G.I. Jane on her laptop, drinking Mai Tai’s, and writing these letters to keep us on the edge of our seat.
Commander said:
Wow! Your daughter is made of flesh and bone and awesomeness. You may be able to tear flesh and break bone, but awesomeness cannot be destroyed.
She is an inspiration for all not to give up, no matter what.
robincoyle said:
You made me tear up here. Wow. “Awesomeness cannot be destroyed.” Wow. Wow.
paigecoyle said:
My sister is such a bad ass.
robincoyle said:
Ha ha! Yes she is!
Lori DiNardi said:
Each one of her emails amazes me further.
Lori DiNardi said:
Oops, sorry, I meant, each one of her letters. Too used to technology.
robincoyle said:
Yeah . . . who writes letters anymore? Amanda amazes me too. What an experience!
maggiemyklebust said:
Thats one tough girl you have!
robincoyle said:
That she is!
literacywhore said:
That’s a good kid you’ve raised there, Robin. Tough as nails.
robincoyle said:
She chews up nails and spits them out as rivets. Where the heck did she get that? Oh yeah, her dad! She is a good kid. As for as tough as she is, she has a gentle and protective side. That comes from being the oldest and looking out for her sisters.
notsofancynancy said:
How proud you must be, and worried.
robincoyle said:
Yup . . . proud and worried sums it up.
Madame Weebles said:
My achilles tendons are wincing sympathetically for Amanda. I hope she doesn’t push herself too much. Her DS sounds like a good guy, glad he’s recognized her potential.
robincoyle said:
When we spoke to her last Sunday, she said she is careful with her injury because she doesn’t want to have to do a “do-over.” The DS is a “scary” good guy! A hard combo to pull off.
T. W. Dittmer said:
The brace will help, but hope the DI keeps his eye on her. Don’t know how it’s done now, but retaking basic because of an injury was a possibility back in the old days. That would slow her down, in what looks like she may choose for her career path. My best to her… and to you and your family. Push on.
robincoyle said:
Yes, she said that if they are injured, they are sent home or have to start over when healed. That would be miserable! Boot camp once is enough!
T. W. Dittmer said:
It’s doable. Second time around would be easier, since the necessary adjustments in thinking are already known. Tough blow to the psyche, though.
robincoyle said:
It seems like they have spent the majority of the time in training thus far, as Dennis Langley said, “tearing them down to build them up again.” The mental part via the physical part!
kford2007 said:
I admire your daughter and praise her strength but I would sob my eyes out knowing my baby is hurt. I don’t know how you keep up your strength, Mama. I hope she realizes what a gem of a mother she has. What a remarkable young lady you have there. If I were you, I’d keep her.
robincoyle said:
Yup . . . I think I will keep her!
The injury has us worried, but since we haven’t had a call saying, “Come get your daughter,” I think she is managing the injury. Thank you for your kind words Jenny!
mlatimerridley said:
Wow, she sounds so impressive, i’d be really proud if I were you. I wimper after a paper cut! Sounds like she’s already impressing the right people there. Looking forward to hearing more about how she’s getting on!! 🙂
robincoyle said:
Paper cuts and hangnails do me in too! It has been fun sharing her letters and the response is wonderful. Folks are so supportive of her, and all our troops. I can’t wait for her to read the comments!
Carrie Rubin said:
The medical side of me will ignore your poor daughter pushing on in the face of musculoskeletal injury. The mom side of me will say, “How cool that your daughter communicates with you so well.” I can just imagine if my son were in the army, I’d get a couple 2-sentence letters and that would be it. 🙂
kford2007 said:
I have a friend who’s son went through basic training with the Navy. She never heard from him. Maybe once a month. He’s stationed in Hawaii now. My friend found out from him about a month ago that he got married. It was a nice and quiet ceremony. He didn’t want a big hooplah, and he knew mama would try to talk him out of it. He still only communicates once or twice a month. The letters are long when he sends them. So weird for a mom and son who used to be so incredibly close.
Carrie Rubin said:
Yes, I suppose it’s a testosterone thing. It’s amazing what my son can communicate to me with a look and a few words. And sometimes even a quick hug. A very quick hug. 🙂
robincoyle said:
That is so sad! Not hearing from her son and the secret marriage must have torn your friend apart! Especially since they were close before. I hope that changes for her. Like Carrie said, I suppose it is a male thing.
I’m feel blessed that all three of my girls are good communicators. Until she went to camp, I didn’t know Amanda was such a good letter writer!
robincoyle said:
Oh, and Carrie . . . I too worry about trying to ignore/work through the pain of her injury. That is a recipe for making it worse!
Nici Roberson said:
She is a trooper, great call for her to not ask for a.profile, I love reading the letters you share, you have a tough/great daughter on yours hands im pretty proud to have her serve our country! Cant wait to read the day she becomes srgt.
robincoyle said:
I’m so glad you are enjoying her letters. They give us good insight into what she is up against, right? She is a tough cookie, and she will love reading your comment about her service.
omawarisan said:
That Drill Sergeant knows what he has. Well done, Mom.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Oma! And, the Drill Sergeant is a smart man!