Here is a nice long letter from our daughter Amanda who is at Army Basic Training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina.
Letter Eight Dated August 5, 2012
(Notes in parentheses are mine. Since the letter is long, I kept my notes to a minimum.)
Hey Rental Units!
I honestly don’t know how you time stuff so perfectly. Friday was a shitty, shitty day and somehow the “mail gods” knew it and your letters and packages arrived. I was seriously on the verge of hurting someone and you were my saving grace. Let me back up a couple of days to fill you in . . .
Wednesday, we went to the shooting range to “group and zero” our M-16s. (Think target practice and sighting in the gun.) I was “battle buddied” with a pathetic shot. She went first and so I didn’t even touch my weapon until after lunch. While it took that girl over a hundred shots, she still didn’t zero. Me, I grouped and zeroed in 20 shots. It was a blessing and a curse. Cool because my Drill Sergeant just looked at me and said, “You can shoot.” It felt like the best compliment in the world. But, then, no more shooting for me. Only 20 rounds and I was finished.
Thursday was a free day for those already grouped and zeroed. Kinda. We cleaned our weapons, practiced trigger squeezes, and breathing techniques for shooting. Boring.
And then we come to Friday. My Platoon stayed back to do more practice and weapon cleaning. (It sounds like we have a lot of free time but really we aren’t allowed to do anything. We aren’t even supposed to talk, but of course that doesn’t happen. I can’t stay silent all day.) We were setting up our shooting drills when the Battalion Commander came outside. Each time an officer comes around we are to call the Platoon to attention, salute, and say “Good morning/afternoon sir/ma’am.” Well, the person who called us to attention forgot to say “Good morning,” so the Commander started to smoke us. But everyone was moving really slow and he started yelling, then people would drop to their knees so more sets kept coming til we could get it right.
(Not sure what that means . . . push-ups?)
It just so happens our Drill Sergeant came by and saw his Big Boss smoking his Privates who were half-assingly doing it. The Battalion Commander even said, “You are embarrassing your Drill Sergeant right now.” As soon as he left, our Drill Sergeant sent us up to the Bay to “toe the line” (That is, stand on the line around our bunks leaving the “kill zone” (center) open for him, just like the movies. He promised to “make it rain inside” (our sweat dripping from the walls) that night.
Also, because of that, we had to do “area beautification” instead of shooting drills. That means we mowed, raked, and pulled weeks in this huge field behind our building, all the time knowing we were going to die that night. Our Drill Sergeant is pretty cool, but he has an anger light switch and we do not doubt him when he says stuff like “making it rain inside.”
After seven hours of baking in this South Carolina heat (seriously, I have never sweat like this before. My shins sweat. I don’t even have shin guards on), we went to chow. No one ate because we knew it would end up all over the floor. We went to the Bay, but first, the Drill Sergeant had four people get “ice sheets” (for if someone passes out) and a first aid bag to put in the Bay with us. He then left us on the line at attention staring at the ultimate doom of first aid and ice sheets, knowing it was serious. He joked with us the following day about his mind-trick. I mean, it worked. We were all scared shitless. After five minutes of waiting, he came in and we just got smoked. But first, and most humiliating of all, he had us put our Camelback drinking tube in our mouth like a pacifier because “if you want to act like babies, you should look like babies.”
Then we did a million push-ups and flutter kicks, and on and on. He said we would go that way until lights-out. Eventually, during the 8-count push-up (position of attention – push-up position – push-up – push-up – push-up – position of attention), one of our most athletic dude’s leg cramped up like you see on TV when they grab their leg and curl up in pain, so we got to stop. I can’t even remember if the “walls were raining.” We had ten minutes to shower and get back to the classroom. (Oh, I forgot to mention, that morning we had 60 – 120 intervals on the track also. I could hardly move by the end of the day.)
Once we got to the classroom, though, he had calmed down and we got our mail. It just perfectly happened to be the time I got your letters, and letters and a package from Jill and Paige (her sisters). I honestly could have cried from happiness and exhaustion. Thank you so much for everything in the care-package.
Jill and Paige sent the cutest letter, some Sudoku books, and a novel. Unfortunately, the only things I can use now are the letters. But that still made my day. And now I have so much to look forward to once I get my personal bag back after graduation. Mom, that picture you sent me is great. (I sent a photo of our family drinking my husband’s homebrew beer at our cabin.) I taped it over my bunk like the girls do in the movies at summer camp. It sounds lame, I know, but it is a nice little escape from here. My Drill Sergeant looks through the photos to make sure they are appropriate. He asked me if you guys sent me the one with the beer in it to tease me. I cannot wait until I can drink one of Dad’s beers with you guys again.
We got in trouble again so now no phone until at least the 7th week. I did, however, get one girl a phone call. Her mom has cancer and she hadn’t heard anything from her, so I talked to the Drill Sergeant on my own. I said the rest of us would do extra duty so she can call home.
We had a lot of fun yesterday. We went to the shooting range where we shot at 175- and 300-meter targets. I honestly didn’t do too hot and got a little frustrated. The Drill Sergeant said he was disappointed. That stung. I felt like I let him down. But the range was fun. On good day, it’d be super cool. And we got to talk while we waited so it was like a party. Plus, after lunch, the Drill Sergeant did a singing/rapping contest so we got some fun in.
You know, they say being at Basic is supposed to change you. The Drill Sergeant keeps saying we won’t recognize ourselves after it. I don’t think that is the case for me though, probably because I am older than the others and I kicked ass at ROTC. It is hard to stay strong here though. Or even to stay a leader because that is not the stuff the Drill Sergeant notices and everyone else fights you the whole way.
To answer some of your questions Mom, we’ve seen very little of the Olympics. We get nothing from the real world. They did tell us about the shooting in Colorado in order to see if any Colorado people needed to call home. Dad sent me a newspaper clipping and technically even that is contraband. There isn’t a break room because there is no break time. The showers/bathroom are almost exactly like high school. We get to clean the bathroom every night while on fireguard. I’ll do the sinks after I read Dad’s letter. Dad, your cards always make my day . . . and my Drill Sergeant’s day. He likes to throw our mail at us, so the cards are his favorite because they get speed and distance.
Well, that was a long letter! Sorry! I know it sounds like I’m complaining, but mostly, I’m just telling you the interesting parts, which happens to be the shitty ones. I do like everything here. I’ll be happy when it is over though!
Miss and love you!
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She is one tough cookie!
Looks like all those movies were more like documentaries. 🙂
Seriously . . . I thought movies were over-blown stereotypical depictions of Drill Sergeants yelling, “drop and give me 20 soldier!”
My sister is a badass.
Yes she is!
This is an amazing insight into basic training…as well as a peek into the mind and heart of a most amazing girl. I wish her the best, Robin.
And…I wish the best to you and your husband, too.
Thank you sweet Robin. Thank you. I love the inside look too.
It is easy(er) to hold up knowing she may be in harm’s way, with the rigorous training she is receiving, and the long-distant support from so many people for her safe journey . . .
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I was writing a post today for my blog and thought of your daughter. Just how different she is from many of her “peers” (I use that term loosely). She seems to have strength, stamina, grit, determination and a willingness to do whatever it takes to succeed. And, then, take the time to try and help others. So many young people today believe in the “MORE, ME, NOW” approach to life. My God but you must be proud of her!
I am curious to know what it was about the post you were writing that made you think of my daughter.
Thanks for you kind words, Dennis. We are very proud of her. I love her blend of sweet and tough in one pretty package.
When she was preteen (or so), we witnessed a motorcycle accident and pulled over. My husband got out of the car to help the rider and because it was a busy street I cautioned the kids to stay inside the car. Amanda leaped over me and was by the injured man in a second. She held his hand and reassured him until the ambulance arrived. Fortunately, he was not hurt too bad. So much for me saying “Stay in the car, girls!”
My blog post talked about work ethic and young people today. The whole time I was writing it I kept thinking, “Robin’s daughter is one of the exceptions. I hope she understands where I’m coming from.”
If she ever tires of the Army, there is always a need for paramedics and flight nurses.
I just checked out your post about clearing your dad’s driveway. I have to say Amanda would have loved to help you!
She considered being a medic in the Army because it is the closest females can get to active battle. But, that desire changed when she was accepted to the Language Institute. She hopes it will lead to a job in intelligence or homeland security.
Outstanding. The will be certainly be better!
Aww, I wanted to cry at so many points reading that. She really is a wee cracker. There’s no way that I could make it through that! I do hope that my letter arrives to you in time! It might already be there?! Or Monday at the latest. Fingers crossed that will be enough time (not that my letter is exciting, or easy to read!).
Ha! I LOVE the expression “wee cracker!” It is a great way to describe Amanda. It may be her new nickname.
No letter from you yet but I will be on the lookout for it.
Well it’s a good nickname! I hope that letter has arrived by now. I’m sorry I didn’t have enough time to send something more interesting. 🙂
Mail hasn’t arrived yet today, but I’ll give you a shout when your letter arrives, you sweet thing!
Phew! I am drained just reading about Amanda’s experiences!
Full of admiration for your girl.
And how great to find out what “toe the line” means … 🙂
Thanks Polly. That will mean a great deal to her. It does to me!
Oh yes, I didn’t think about the origin of the expression “toe the line.” Good one.
Zeroed in 20 rounds? When she gets out of the army, I’m hiring her as my hitman.
I’ll warn Le Clown.
Spa day! Great idea. Her poor muscles. I felt sorry for all of them reading this.
Doesn’t it sound horrible? Even her “fun” days exhaust me.
Hey, you changed your photo again. Very cute!
Thanks. Needed a change.
I think I would sleep for a year after that experience.
I’m so #TeamAmanda!
What a great cheerleader you are! Let’s have “Team Amanda” tee-shirts made up!
I’ll definitely buy one if you do!
I am so thankful we have people like your daughter serving our country!
Thanks Nancy! It takes a special breed, doesn’t it?
Yes and your daughter is certainly one of them. You raised yourself a great one, I see her going places!
How sweet of you to say.
I love your daughter. May I have her???? 🙂 I’m so incredibly proud of her. I think a spa treatment would be perfect and well-deserved. Maybe a day for all four girls, eh?
She has enough personality to go around, so sure, we can all share her! Yup, the day at the spa is in order for all of us. Join us!
Sounds like she’s doing okaywith her achilles injury. Almost done now. Talk her out of jumping out of airplanes. 😀
I left out of the post that she mentioned in her letter she is still on pain medicine for her injury but that she is managing.
Funny you should say that about airplanes . . . at one point, she wanted to be a fighter pilot. I threw cold water on that when I reminded her she gets motion sickness, is claustrophobic, and doesn’t like heights! Leave it to a mom, right?
That’s probably good that she’s averse to heights. I remember a big push for special forces at the end of basic, and everbody was so pumped that jumping out of airplanes sounded fun. She’s doing great.
Tough kid. She sounds strong but with a heart.
She has a huge heart. I love that she looks out for her fellow soldiers.
She’s amazing, Robin. I’m almost speechless reading her letter today. She’s such a strong person in every way. Thank you, as always, for sharing this slice of her life with us.
Sorry the letter was so long, but there was so much interesting (read, harrowing) stuff in it I couldn’t leave anything out!
Oh, gracious! I’m so glad you share so much with us. She has a nice casual way of writing, and I can picture so clearly what she writes. And yes, it *is* harrowing.
I am proud of her writing style. She writes a darn good letter! I can picture the scene too, but I can’t imagine the physical toll! Goodness . . . making the walls sweat?!
OMG, how does she get through all this stuff?
I know, she’s tough (with a soft heart)
I don’t know how she does it. Thank goodness she is physically tough, but also mentally tough. The mind-games alone would have me whimpering in the corner.
Aww you should be so proud of her I actually had tears in my eyes reading about her offer to do extra duties to get the other girl a call home. In the letter I sent I stuck my address on it and an offer if any of them want a penfamily then to write back
The line about the girl whose mom has cancer got to me too. I did find out when we spoke to Amanda a couple weeks ago that the girl was allowed to call home.
Great idea about offering to be a pen pal!
it was almost fated timing as I had just been reading a post about how no one ever writes letters anymore just before I read your post asking if anyone would like to send a note, my gran moved away when I was quite young because of my grandads health and a couple of weeks ago she gave me some of the letters I had sent her okay they were not very interesting but they meant so much she had saved them for thirty years you cant really say that about a text, plus am sure if anyone one does want a pen pal it would be fun sending the occasional care package just so they could compare what you get in the states and here in the UK as I know lots of our sweets etc are very different a friend of mine in the states has just experienced jelly babies for the first time as her son brought her some back from over here lol
Oh, my, I feel guilty as I’m about to enjoy a fun weekend. Your poor sweet daughter. Thank goodness for brave souls like her.
When she gets out of Basic training, I’m booking her the works at a day spa. I might join her, as her letters make me sore, bruised, and exhausted from just reading about all she is doing.
Enjoy your weekend!
Thanks! You too. 🙂
Wanna join us at the day spa?
Would you believe I’ve never been to a spa? It’s that whole introvert thing again.
Well then, I insist you join us! Girls day out!
I will be there in a virtual reality world. Then other peoples hands won’t really be touching me. 😉