Hello folks . . .
I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. It is official; the holidays are here. They were heralded in by 5,000 calories on a plate, Uncle Joe sleeping it off in front of the football game, and crazy people shopping door-buster deals at 3:00 am. Nothing says Merry Christmas like a fist fight over a flat-screen TV.
All jokes aside, I received an early Christmas gift from my friend Maggie Myklebust at Fly Away Home Books. Granted, she was in a post-virtual-cocktail-party-stupor when she gave it to me, but I am thankful nonetheless.
In all her foggy-headed wisdom, she bestowed this blog with the 2012 Blog of the Year award. I can hear Maggie saying right now, “I did whaaaaaa? Someone hand me the Pepto.”
Who, me?
The timing of her misguided generosity in naming this humble blog as a 2012 Blog of the Year is in sync with a post rattling around in my head. I recently asked in an unscientific study:
Why did you start a blog?
Why do you keep blogging?
What do you want/get out of blogging?
Price Waterhouse analyzed the answers and reported the results to me in an envelope sealed with a cool gold sticker. Just like at the Academy Awards.
To a man, woman, and child, we started blogging for different reasons, but we KEEP blogging for the same reason . . . the wonderful community spirit and fellowship we’ve found in the blogosphere. Ella Dee said it best when she described it as a “WordPress Community Garden.”
We talk about the aura, feel, and appeal of blogging. It is mysterious and hard to name. However, I have concrete examples of the magic that has happened to me because of my blog. I bet you have similar stories.
In a comment conversation with Mike Allegra on his blog Hey Look a Writer Fellow, I jokingly asked him to do one of his cute doodles for my daughter in the Army. Bam . . . two days later this was in my mailbox.
Mike did this doodle even though he was busy swimming upstream in the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy’s deluge. While doing the backstroke, he made sure it arrived in time for Veteran’s Day. How is that for community spirit?
While I was in the throes of my dad in critical condition in the hospital, Unfettered BS, T.W. Dittmer, All Things Boys Blog, and Maddie Cochere at Breezy Books, sent emails to check in on me. (My apologies if I am forgetting anyone.) Paula Acton sent me a letter in the mail from jolly old England. These folks don’t know my dad or me. But their kind and caring spirit shined through their words. Their notes came at opportune times for me . . . when I was at my lowest point.
All Thing Boys Blog and Corey, M.P. became beta readers of my novel after I bribed them with chocolate. I’m kidding. They volunteered. Like they don’t have enough on their plate. Their comments and suggestions were invaluable.
Carrie Rubin at The Write Transition mentioned my Strong vs Weak Word series in the acknowledgements of her freshly published novel Seneca Scourge. If that wasn’t enough to make my button burst, she sent me an autographed copy of her book. She didn’t need to do that; even though it may be the only time I see my name in print.
On a similar note, Maddie at Breezy Books gifted me a copy of her book after she stumbled upon my Strong vs Weak Word series. I suspect it was a bribe to keep me from doing any further posts in the series.
Pete Denton was smart crazy enough to give this blog its first award. Pete’s kindness gave me the confidence to keep going at a time when I thought, “Why the heck am I doing this?” and was ready to toss in the towel and keyboard.
A happy-go-lucky and witty blogger started a private blog as a place to share the darker side of her life story. I was one of the first people she invited to her private blog. I am touched that she feels safe in sharing her world with me.
Over the summer I posted the letters our daughter Amanda sent us from Army Basic Training and your heartfelt support of her commitment to our country made me cry more than once. Let’s not forget the dozens of letters my bloggy friends sent to her platoon. No one needed to do that, but you did.
Then, there are the faithful followers, likers, and commenters who play along with me even when my post is lame-o.
There are many more examples of “the magic,” but I’ll leave it at that for now.
The rules of accepting this award aren’t fair. One of the rules is to NOT alter the rules, to which I say:
Dear Thinker-Upper-of This-Award:
You ask the impossible in telling me to single out blogs for this award. Ergo, I won’t. The list of my nominees would too long and the post would set a world’s record for “Most Links in one Post.”
Respectfully,
Robin “The Rule Breaker” Coyle
Thank you Maggie for this honor. I am blessed to have you, and all my other blogging friends as, well . . . friends.
What magic has happened to you because of your blog?
P. S. My dad is back in the hospital. I’ll be in and out of blogging and reading blogs once again.
Pete Denton said:
Well deserved and thanks for striking through the word *smart*. Crazy is a much better way to describe me 🙂
robincoyle said:
How about smart AND crazy?
Pete Denton said:
I’ll accept that 😉
John the Aussie said:
Congratulations Robin, well deserved indeed.
robincoyle said:
Well deserved? Not so sure about that, but thank you.
John the Aussie said:
It is, you are a dedicated blogger!
Let's CUT the Crap! said:
You deserve it. Stop blushing. I mean it! Congratulations, Robin.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Tess. How did you know I was blushing?
ahamin said:
Oh… so someone had beat me to you… I just nominated you too for the blog of the year award.
Congrats!
robincoyle said:
Thank you! How cool is that. I do not feel worthy of such an honor. It means a lot to me coming from you.
Lynne Ayers said:
Deserving of the award – you do keep many of us smiling and lol-ing with your wit and humour. I am so sorry you are back on the roller coaster again. I hope your Dad rallies, that your sister can accept the relief and the inevitable and that you feel all the hugs people are sending you.
robincoyle said:
I do feel the hugs people are sending this way. It is lovely to have such support in this helpless situation.
So glad to hear I make you smile.
Dennis Langley said:
Well deserved. I am so sorry I missed the cocktail party. It sounded like a real blow-out. Maybe next time. Hang in there Robin. Thinking of you and your family.
robincoyle said:
The cocktail party was a huge success! Sorry you missed it too. Watch for On the Homefront and Beyond’s Christmas party on December 15th. Come dressed as your favorite author and bring an appetizer from the l970s. I’ll be dressed as Dr. Seuss.
Thanks for keeping my family in your thoughts.
WomanBitesDog said:
Congrats on the award! They are a bit of fun and make you feel good, I think! Sorry to hear about your dad too.
robincoyle said:
The award was lots of fun. Gives a tired blogger a shot in the arm!
4amWriter said:
Congrats on your award; I am not at all surprised that it would be bestowed upon you. 🙂 I am really sorry to hear about your dad, and my thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself, Robin, and you know where to find your blogging friends. 🙂
robincoyle said:
Hey! I’ve missed you. I know you are focusing on writing right now. How is it going?
4amWriter said:
I was able to write 50,000 words for NaNoWriMo, woo hoo! So, I have put that aside for a bit. Now I’m trying to catch up on my blogging friends’ sordid lives. 😉
robincoyle said:
Good for you! I’m impressed. NaNo is a challenge bigger than my pea-brain.
If you come across any good dirt while catching up, point me in that direction!
Vikki (The View Outside) said:
Congratulations Robin, much deserved 🙂
Sorry to hear about your dad honey (((((hugs)))))
Xx
robincoyle said:
You give the best hugs, Vikki. Thank you.
diannegray said:
What a beautiful post, Robin. You certainly have had a lot of support and made some beautiful friends in this WordPress Community Garden! 😉
Congratulations on the award – you certainly deserve it! Your blog has always been on my ‘top blogs’ list! 😀
I really hope your dad is okay – i’m sending big *hugs* your way.
robincoyle said:
How nice of you to say! I love that I am on your ‘top blog’ list. You are on mine too, honey!
I love my blogging friends. What a smart, funny, and caring group.
Thanks for the hugs. Much appreciated.
omawarisan said:
I think you should have to wear a sash with 2012 Blog Of The Year on it. You could pull it off.
robincoyle said:
Now why didn’t I think of that? A tiara is in order too. I refuse to do the swimsuit competition, but I am game for the evening gown category.
IntrovertedSarah said:
Streamers and balloons are fully deserved. I am sorry to catch up and read about your dad and I will be wishing him a very speedy recovery. How is your mum doing in all this?
robincoyle said:
My mum (love calling her that!) is not doing well. She is living with my sister and my poor sister is at her wits end. She doesn’t want to put her in a home, but I am afraid the time has come. As a first step, we are hiring help to give my sister some relief.
How the heck are you!? Did I see a blog post from you today? I’m off to check my email inbox.
Cathy Ulrich said:
Robin,
Congrats on the award. Your blog is a “Best of 2012!” Sending hugs to you and positive thoughts for your dad. Hope your cold resolves quickly so you can visit him.
Cathy
robincoyle said:
Thanks Cathy. This damn cold came at the worst time. I guess better now than during the holidays.
Blog of the Year sounds to lofty for this humble blog. Kinda cool tho!
kindredspirit23 said:
I enjoy your post, don’t stop.
Scott
robincoyle said:
Oh, I won’t stop. Just have to get over some road bumps. Glad you enjoy it here.
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
One of the magic things about blogging is finding bloggers like you — like-minded, intelligent, funny and thoughtful, You deserve this award and I like the fact that you broke the rules to serve your own (good) purpose. Now get ready for our party in December–I am looking to you to co-host as the party at your place was a blast!
robincoyle said:
Oooh . . . I’d love to co-host the December party. Let’s brainstorm how we can blow the doors off. Since the doors are going to be blown off, I’m glad it is at your pad! Is your homeowner’s insurance paid up?
Yes, the magic is in finding friends like you. Gosh, I love this place called blog-o-home.
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
great–we shall have to put our heads together–all and any suggestions welcome–this blogosphere won’t know what happened when we join forces
robincoyle said:
How about “come as your favorite author dressed in a toga?” Too much?
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
ha ha ha ha ha ha
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
are you harkening back to our university days, young lady–I deny everything
robincoyle said:
Toga party? Who me? Never. Tee hee.
on thehomefrontandbeyond said:
I know (wink) 😉
Subtlekate said:
I’m so sorry to hear that, Robin. I will be thinking about you and your family.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Kate. How’s the move going? You settled yet? How’s your recovery progressing?
Subtlekate said:
Things stalled when I got some medical news, but I will blog about it. Other then that, things are good and on track. I’ve moved out of the house. It feels good. When does your dad leave the hospital?
robincoyle said:
Uh oh. Medical news? I shall watch for your blog post. You have me worried.
We are hoping Dad is out of the hospital soon, but no definite day set yet.
maggiemyklebust said:
I’m sorry to hear your dad is not well, again. Tough times… xxoo
No one deserved the Blog of the Year award more than you Robin. Even in these tough times, you still make people smile…thanks!
robincoyle said:
And thank you again for the undeserved award. Makes me blush and want to say, “Aw, shucks . . . you shouldn’t have. But I’m glad you did!”
Also, I’m glad I made you smile. That makes me happy!
Tilly Bud - The Laughing Housewife said:
Best reception of a blog award I’ve read.
robincoyle said:
I wouldn’t go that far, but thanks!
Maddie Cochere said:
Congratulations on the award, Robin. We’ll be praying for your dad.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Maddie. Gall darn it. Dad makes two steps forward and one step back at every turn. He is bummed, but isn’t giving up the fight. Thank goodness he was so healthy going into this battle.
EllaDee said:
Congratulations on the award… I can’t think of anyone more deserving – you enlighten & entertain, and even during your absence you still have your finger on the keyboard 😉 Thank you for the mention… You have now assumed your rightful place as head gardener. You gave me my first 2 awards, and also led the way in award rule breaking… which I’m happy to see you taking to greater heights 🙂
robincoyle said:
Well thank you very much Ella Dee. I believe you are the head gardener in our Community Garden. I’m just the rule breaker.
I feel so guilty in not being able to keep up with everyone. I am in a weird time-warp right now. It will pass, I know, but I don’t like it.
judithatwood said:
Dear Robin — I think this award is well placed — I have your Weak/Strong list on my wall next to the desk. You have done me such a favor, just by drawing my attention to the word “was.” I am currently doing a find in my NaNoWriMo novel, in order to replace them all with stronger language. Blessings for you and your dad — I hope he feels better soon. I know having you there is making his trial an easier one.
Love,
Judith
robincoyle said:
It tickles me no end to hear you have the Strong vs Weak Word series next to your desk. I must gather the posts in one place on my blog. Perhaps I will tackle that today.
Did you finish your NaNoWriMo novel? If so, good for you! Now the fun, I mean work, begins, right? EDITING! Whoo hoo!
judithatwood said:
I am up to 42,800 words. I stopped writing for five days. But I will make 50,000 by the 30th. Thanks for asking!
robincoyle said:
So close . . . so close!
coreymp said:
Oh Robin, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad going back to the hospital. I’m sending you good vibes.
Congratulations on the blog award! I enjoyed being your beta reader. Happy to help. 🙂
robincoyle said:
How is your dad doing?
And I so appreciate you being a beta reader. Your comments were an excellent guidepost for me. It is a much better read because if your input.
coreymp said:
Thank you so much, Robin. It was such a pleasure reading your book and giving you feedback. I’m glad I could help.
My dad is getting better every day. Thanks for asking.
Madame Weebles said:
First, I’m so sorry your father is in the hospital again. I hope it’s very very temporary. And again, please look after yourself too. Also, your blog is the bomb. It’s because of you that my own writing has improved. So thanks!
robincoyle said:
What a nice thing for you to say. However, I don’t think your writing needed any help from me. You make it look so easy! Heck . . . look at the hoards of people who follow you!
unfetteredbs said:
Take care of yourself Robin! Thanks for the mention(again) This was a great example of the community garden.. still cannot quite put my finger on it but you came pretty darn close to explaining it.
Thoughts and prayers to you and yours.. please get some rest
Audra
robincoyle said:
Thanks Audra. All good thoughts and prayers are welcome here! I’m looking forward to when this blog returns to normal . . . whatever that means.
Did your daughter leave for school?
unfetteredbs said:
yep.. just got back from driving her. Lovely holiday driving 🙂 Fortunately we left at the right time and can navigate the back roads pretty well.
Jodie said:
Congratulations on your award! I’ve really enjoyed reading It.
robincoyle said:
Thanks Jodie. So glad to hear you enjoyed my musings.
annewoodman said:
Robin,
Congrats on the blog award.
So sad to hear about your dad being in the hospital, and you not well enough to visit. Please do take care of yourself, and I’ll be praying for your dad.
robincoyle said:
“Blog of the Year” overstates it a tad. Rather embarrassing. I am not worthy. But, it was fun to talk about the community spirit.
Now, will you quit killing me at Words With Friends? Please?
jmgoyder said:
Brilliant post and I feel the same way you do. The generosity of this blog community has amazed me too. All the best with your dad Robin.
robincoyle said:
Such a great group of people I’ve “meet.” That includes you.
I’d love to hear your words of wisdom about something. My Alzheimer’s mom is living with my sister, but my sister is at her wits end. How can we transition Mom into a home? Any advice?
The Hook said:
And all the best to you and yours in your time of need, Robin.
robincoyle said:
Thank you Hook. This is the pits.
The Hook said:
I’ve made huindreds of new friends because of my decision to commit my thoughts to the ‘net. Starting a blog has proven to be a life-changing decision.
robincoyle said:
And who knew blogging would be life-changing, right?
Vanessa Chapman said:
A well deserved award, and in response to one of the things you mentioned there, let me say that none of your posts are lame-o! The supportive community within the blogging world is the best. There’s something I wish I could talk about on mine because I know I would get some wise words back, maybe one day…
Sorry your Dad is back in hospital, sending you lots of hugs and good thoughts.
robincoyle said:
Thanks for the hugs and good thoughts, Vanessa.
Hmmm . . . you have me curious. What act of kindness would you like to write about on your blog but feel you can’t. Hmmm . . . Enquiring minds (me) want to know.
Vanessa Chapman said:
Haha! Sorry, I shouldn’t have said anything, I hate it when people are cryptic, like “I know something but I’m not telling you”, and you think “Well why did you say anything at all then?!”, and then I’ve done the same thing. It’s not an act of kindness, I just meant I have something going on that I would kind of like to blog about to see what people had to say, but for certain reasons I can’t! Eek, sorry, forget I said anything..ooh look, a squirrel!
robincoyle said:
Ha! That is my favorite line from “Up.”
Well, when the time comes where you feel you can share, you know there are lots of people who would like to help . . . even if it is just to be a strong shoulder and a sympathetic ear.
originalapplejunkie said:
Congratulations on your Award!
I support 2012 Blog of the Year all the way! 🙂
I’m so sorry to hear that your dad is back in the hospital..
I’ll keep him and your family in my prayers.
You are loved!x
originalapplejunkie said:
I look back on this comment and cringe at the exclamation points..*he he*
It’s because of you that I look through my work a lot more carefully now =)
robincoyle said:
Ha ha! You can use all the exclamation points you want when writing a comment here! The more the merrier! See! I used three here already! Make that four! Make that . . .well, never mind. You get my point.
valeriedavies said:
Hope it works out for him and you,. Robin, I know what that winding unpredictable road feels like…sometimes it feels that the only thing to do is pray and let-go… doing doesn’t always do it, but finding peace of mind Helps…
robincoyle said:
A complication I didn’t mention in this post is I came down with a raging cold yesterday! I can’t visit Dad in the hospital because I am a cesspool of germs right now. Dang it all.
valeriedavies said:
Dang it all indeed..and it’s probably stress and tiredness that caused it… so a bit of coddling for you too…!
robincoyle said:
You are probably right. I didn’t think about that. I’m sure my immune system is whacked.
valeriedavies said:
So lots of Vitamin B and C and multi minerals and rest…doctors have never heard of nutritional medicine ….
Vit B is needed for stress- nerve repair, as well as sore throats, cold sores and a host of other things….and works best in conjunction with the other vitamins and minerals – including calcium and magnesium for stress….
robincoyle said:
Headed to the pharmacy right now! Thanks Valerie!
jmmcdowell said:
I think you did a great job of handling this award. The creators shouldn’t feel slighted that you didn’t quite follow the rules. I’m betting you were a child who “colored outside the lines,” as a matter of fact.
My thoughts are with you and your family. My mother did a few rounds of in-and-out-of-the-hospital when she was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. But she’s stayed away from the hospital for well over a year now. If your dad’s as strong-willed as my mom, I’d put my money on him.
Remember—we’re here if you need a shoulder to rest on.
robincoyle said:
Thank you JM. Another fine example of blogging magic. Folks, like you, zero in on where blogging friends need support.
I sat at my computer for a long time trying to follow the rules of this award and gave up. I would have followed your lead if I didn’t see your post about Carrie too late.
As far as the coloring book thing? Yup. I colored outside the lines and made the sky green and the grass blue. My mother considered having my sanity tested.
philosophermouseofthehedge said:
Yea and darn….congrats on the award – well deserved! (And some of our best blogger friends are those rule breakers!)
Darn on the dad bounce back to the hospital. Will be holding all you in our thoughts and prayers ( and RC Cat sends an encouraging paw wave…she’s feeling very benevolent these days…worries us a bit…)
Seriously sending cheer and hope
robincoyle said:
Is RC Cat named after me? How kind of you. What do you mean, no, s/he isn’t? What does RC stand for if not Robin Coyle?
Seriously, the rules of this award were too onerous. Singling out blogs when I first started blogging was easy-ish. Now? Impossible.
Thank you for you support, thoughts, and prayers. What would I do without you guys?
philosophermouseofthehedge said:
Cats select their own names and whisper them to you. RC stands for Resident Cat (although RC has other interpretations). It’s a title for the oldest cat in the realm. (Staff will not dare let her see your response…although to share with such an award winner should be an honor…yes, that’s a tact we can use with her)
I think you handled the award presentations/rules well. It was nice the award binge calmed a bit – these posts take time to do. Hang in there and hug the kid when you get a chance.
robincoyle said:
Oh of course. I knew the cat is Resident Cat. Give RC a tummy rub for me.
Yes, the award blitz over the summer was a bit much. Nice to be recognized, but after a while, too much to handle.
T. W. Dittmer said:
Kind of you to think of me, Robin. I’m not a praying man, nor am I a hugger, but the best thoughts I can come up with are conveyed to you and yours. Breathe.
robincoyle said:
Thank you Tim. It meant a great deal to me that you thought of me when Dad was so sick. Now, here we go again. Darn it. He was doing so well. He is bummed!
T. W. Dittmer said:
It’s a tough situation for him, not just physically. Be there and care and do what you can, but try to remember to take care of yourself. That’s tough to do too.
heylookawriterfellow said:
Oh, you! I doodled that doodle, ’cause you and yours are wonderful! I’ll continue to keep your dad in my thoughts and prayers.
And congrats on your award, Robin. It is well deserved!
Take care, my friend.
robincoyle said:
Oh shoot! I forgot I said I would run the post by you before I posted it. Bad Robin, bad. Please forgive this addled and turkey-stuffed brain.
Have you dug out from Sandy’s aftermath?
heylookawriterfellow said:
Oh, come on. How could I possibly be anything but delighted by what you have written?
Sandy has moved to the background, I’m delighted (and thankful) to say. And now that my book tour is over, life feels normal. Finally I can find the time to write again!
robincoyle said:
Oh phew. That is excellent to hear.
And, how fun is it for you to say (write) the words “book tour?” I hope to be there someday!
heylookawriterfellow said:
You’ll be there.
robincoyle said:
Fingers crossed. Candles lit. Hail Mary said.
philosophermouseofthehedge said:
That’s one terrific doodle
(and glad you managed that Sandy OK)
robincoyle said:
Isn’t that doodle great? Looks just like Amanda! Don’t tell her I said so.
Carrie Rubin said:
Thank you so much for the wonderful mention, Robin. What a nice treat to find, and I am honored to be among such great company. I recently had this award bestowed upon me as well, and like you, I’m wondering how I can possibly choose who to pass it onto. So many great bloggers and people out there!
Thanks again, and know that my thoughts are with you and your family.
robincoyle said:
I saw JM’s lovely post on you and your blog. Well deserved my friend. When Maggie gave this to me, my first thought was, “Oh no. How am I going to pull this one off.”
kford2007 said:
Congratulations on the award. I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. What a long year 2012 has been for you. I’ll pray for peace and tranquility in your life. Big hugs.
robincoyle said:
All prayers welcome. My poor dad. He was making great progress. In fact, the nursing home was ready to kick him out because he was doing so well. Darn it all.
Hugs to you too.